From saga novel The Courtesan Prince by Lynda Williams.
"I suspect you are so wrapped up in your resentment at his failure to remain a perfect lover that you can't think of him as a person. As the boy you seduced and encouraged to care about you."
"I seduced?" Ann shot up. "Hey! You weren't there!"
Falling into a physical relationship with Von (the young Amel) felt so natural to Ann she never questioned the ethics. Or how come a supposed aristocrat from a foreign culture was such a pro in the sack.